Forgiveness is a responsibility to not blaming or judging others, and learn to accept and give in. Either one of us have to make decision to let go of the past and mistakes to heal the relationship between each other. Otherwise, the anger i hold on to will keep bothering me. And it will lead to negative vibes.

Forgiving completely may be difficult. Remembering the person who did wrong to me, even they apologize but i think that it is still unacceptable. Because i wouldn't know weather it's a sincere apology. Or am i just being egoistic? However, i learn to forgive and forget. Think mature and be tolerate. Everybody makes mistake. I wouldn't deny even i make mistakes, a lot of times. By forgiving, do it with sincerity. Never keep a grudge towards the person. Rebuild good relationships.

But i experienced a lot where people who treated me wrong but didn't realize they did. I didn't even accept a simple word of "sorry". I keep remembering and hold on to it, the anger in me just won't go away. But finally i got rid of the negative thoughts. I chose to forgive. I believe someday they will realize and feel guilty. Even our God is forgiving, so why wouldn't we? Everyone deserves forgiveness.

Forgiving others brings good and positive things in life. I feel very calm and relieve. So from now on, if you ever feel hard to forgive others. Throw away your ego and learn to give in.